Labarin Hanukkah ga wadanda ba na Yahudanci ba: Abin da zai ba 'yan uwan ​​Yahudawa ga Hanukkah

8 Tips don Bikin Hanukkah

Menene ya dace - kuma bai cancanci ba - don ba abokin abokina ko abokin aiki ga Hanukkah?

Idan kana da masaniya da ɗan'uwan Yahudawa kuma yana so ya ba wa mahaifiyarsa wani abu don bukukuwan - kuma ba ka so ka busa shi - mene ne jagororin unspoken? Idan iyalinka suna murna da Kirsimati, kuma dan aboki mafi kyau na dan ku Yahudawa, menene ya kamata ku samu kuma yaushe lokaci ya dace don bayar da kyautar Hanukkah?

Ko kuma kana zaton kuna yin aiki tare da wanda yake Yahudawa, kuma kuna son samun kyautar Kirsimeti: ya kamata ku?

Mafi kyawun asirin Hanukkah: Ba Kiristan Kiristanci ba ne

Abu na farko, wani muhimmin factoid: Hanukkah ba ainihin "Kiristancin Yahudawa" ba.

Yana da wani biki ne na Yahudawa, wanda ya fi muhimmanci a cikin ka'idodin Yahudawa fiye da Kirsimati shine Kiristoci.

Wannan ya ce, musamman ma a {asar Amirka, Hanukkah ya dauki nauyin bayar da kyauta. Me ya sa? Domin kawai yana faruwa ne kawai a cikin watan Disamba, lokacin kakar cinikin Kirsimeti.

8 Dos & Don'ts na Hanukkah Kyauta Giving

Dangane da farin ciki na hutu, a nan akwai "Dos da Don'ts" guda takwas don kyautar kyautar Hanukkah - samfuta guda takwas don girmama darajojin dare takwas na Hanukkah.

1. Kada ku ba Ham ga Hanukkah. Ba duk wanda yake Yahudawa yana kula da cin abinci mai kosher ba. Yawancin mutanen New York basuyi ba. Yawanci, kauce wa kwanduna abinci da zubar da irin wannan kyawawan irin naman alade na Kanada, zane-zane mai sassauci, sarwar katakon Serrano, tsiran alade ta Italiyanci, akwati na kyawawan kuki da aka yi ado kamar Santa, ko 'ya'yan itace na Kirsimeti. A gefe guda, idan abokinka na Yahudanci abinci ne ko kuma yana da yen na musamman don abinci maras kosher, gwada takardar shaidar kyauta ga shahararren mai cin ganyayyaki a Brooklyn da ake kira Traif kuma, kamar yadda yake, kusa da Hasidic gari a Williamsburg. Ko kuma za ka iya kai su zuwa bikin Likita na shekara-shekara, don haka za su iya dandana iri-iri iri-iri daban daban.

1. Ka ba : Ka ba da littattafai, tufafi, kayan wasa, kayan lantarki, kayan aiki, kayan ado, kayan ado, tafiye-tafiye zuwa Paris ko watã, tsabar kudi, kyautai na lokaci irin su jarirai kyauta, ko kyautai don sadaka. Game da kyautar abinci, duba sama.
2. Kada ka kasance Biri Ƙararru: Ci gaba da waɗancan PJs tare da Maƙalafan Redi da Green. Launuka na Kirsimeti suna ja da kore. Hanukkah launuka suna blue da fari.

1. Ka ba da kyautarka a lokacin hutu . Idan kyautar Hanukkah ne, to, ku yi ƙoƙari ku ba da shi a cikin lokaci mai kyau, ma'anar lokacin Hanukkah. Wannan bai zama mawuyaci - wannan hutu yana gudanar da kwanaki takwas! Yaushe ne dare na karshe na Hanukkah wannan shekara?
2. Kada ku ba Creche Kirsimeti don Hanukkah. A daidai wannan yanayin kamar yadda # 3 a sama, kada ku ba kyautar Hanukkah da Santas, kwari, ruwan sanyi, ko bishiyoyi Kirsimeti. Sai dai idan mai karɓar kyautarka yana son kitsch, kauce wa ba da kyautar Kirsimeti na hannu, koda kuwa kayi watsi da shi har zuwa Brooklyn daga kasuwar fash a Venice.
3. Yi Amince Da Kyauta Hanukkah na Hanyar Hankali, Idan Ba ​​Ka Tabbatar da Shi ba . Yana da kullun kyauta don ba da wata al'ada.

   Ga yara, kamannin Kirsimetan kayan kirki ne dreidel (wani nau'i na kayan wasa ta musamman tare da haruffa Ibrananci a kowane gefe), ko ƙananan kwallun cakulan da aka nannade a takarda na zinariya don kama da tsabar kudi.

   Ga tsofaffi, la'akari da kyawawan kyandir, man fetur mai kyau, ko littafi na Yahudawa. Wannan ya ce, abokinka ko abokin aikinka zai fi son abincin abinci, irin su ajiyar abinci a Brooklyn Kitchen don yin kundin ketare na Idin Ƙetarewa wanda yake tara turɓaya a cikin ɗakin Carroll Gardens.

4. Kada ku sanya Kyauta Hanukkah a cikin kullun Kirsimeti . Ka guji kunshi kyautar Hanukkah a cikin takarda ta Kirsimeti; littattafai na iya zama nau'in haɗari a cikin lalacewa amma har yanzu ana yanke hukunci akan su.

   Idan ka sayi takarda mai lakabi, zaɓi wani nau'i na jigilar jini ko ƙwaƙwalwa a kan ƙuƙwalwar Hanukkah na musamman (ko da yake yana iya wucewa kuma lokacin da ka ba shi shi zai zama ƙasa da shi fiye da yadda kake tsammani). Ko kuma, tafi kore, da kuma sake yin tsohuwar tsufa sashe na New York Times ko takarda mai launin ruwan kasa daga ɗakunan ka na karshe daga masu tsabta.

   Koma katin kyauta: saya, amfani ko yin katin Hanukkah, ko amfani da katin da aka samu daga duniya daga sadaqa irin su UNICEF, amma don kasancewa da daidaito, kada ku saka katin Kirsimeti akan kyautar Hanukkah. Ko kuma, haɗama kyautar kyautar Kirsimeti-Hanukkah don iyalan bangaskiya.

1. Kada ku shiga Abokinku akan JDate.com don Hanukkah . A karshe, idan abokinka na Yahudawa ya kasance ɗaya, kada ka rubuta shi a kan JDate, duk da cewa sigar sirrin fim din "hanya ce ta zamani ga Yahudawa su sami ƙauna." Me ya sa? Domin wannan kyauta an tanada wa iyayen Yahudawa.

Happy Holidays!

An shirya ta Alison Lowenstein